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Friday, October 22, 2010

Free after 2 years and 4 months! Long affair and long history.

of the peace
(Sydney)

I am 63 and man, I was involved with was 69. maybe we are older than the average has ... I'm not sure.

My husband is in the last stages of terminal disease where we Web sites for adults. I was very lonely and there is no help from my family and friends. The company is what I was looking for.

He was looking for a companion and sex partner who could share interests and time with it. I have found during the we are mutually visible that everything (to my knowledge), he told me is true. He lives close to me and what I see, all that he said to his life and the family is true.It is a lonely man, as a result of his or her spouse to participate in many community service organizations.

Of course, the inevitable happened and we had the affair dynamic long term. We have many things together and share the amazing sex (Yes, I know, we sound old, but it was really!), I had the time and made the time. Even if we went away from the holiday.

After the holidays and frequent bouts of depression on my side I made the decision to end the affair.

Since the possible death of my husband I becomes increasingly lonely isolation and the affair was me from my friends and family. It was to ask for more and more of my time and energy we started several hobbies, exercise together and joined the couple of social groups in an attempt to spend more time together.This works to an extent, but it is not enough for me.I was beginning to feel more time with it

Would have never asked him to leave his real life.Its age it will not survive such a major change, was married for 50 years, it just will never work.He retire soon and will move in a pensioner and another phase of life.

We talked to separate quiet and relax together and sometimes We agreed to do.. I still miss it chat Overdrive he also missed me, he certainly has left gaping hole in both our lives because we spent spare our time together.No one ever died of a broken heart, but sometimes it feels as though I could.

He was very kind and understanding to me some really bad weather, when I had honestly there is no family that is willing to help or listen to it I will always remember with gratitude and affection for some kind of these times.

I'm standing on the edge of a brand new life. ...only a little overloaded, it began to feel better ...more longing for him and feel as one of the outside that I don't miss my time is for your own a new beginning.

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11yrs. Wow. so many years of the most wonderful friendship I have ever had. Such a compassionate man. Absolutely everthing in common. We were not once physically involved until a year ago. The passion sure was there and bubbling over for sure through the years, but it just didn't happen because we couldn't. Then things broke free last year, and the Love lead the way. Amazing......the most incredible love was made that night.


Twin flames. Soul mates. Always will be. His responsibility to his family keeps us from moving on. I have cleared a path for him to enter my life ...out with the old so to speak. We're both in our mid to late 40's so we are no spring chickens here. Many years of us both feeling lonely in our marriages, and other marital issues that has lead to divorce for me, I certainly knew that if he would have me, I would be there with arms wide open.


He wants me, but he's afraid of the pain he will cause his family. His exact words are " how do i justify my happiness for their pain ? ". Well, I can certainly understand it. I'm not a selfish heartless creature that lurks in the night to search and destroy other womens hearts, and cause the kids pain. Although, the kids are old enough to understand, but will they ?


I face the challenge of being the most hated woman, or being among the women that have gotten the not so nice title of " being the other woman". Ive been on both sides of the fence now. Ive beent the child that had the pain of fathers new life, new girlfriend, new wife, new family. Ive been the spouse who was cheated on. Now I am the one thing I said I never would be. Never is along time to say you wont do something...and then find yourself in the very thing you tried to deny.


No one knew about me in his life for all this time until a couple of days ago. He's been quiet, and I could sense something was just not up to par. He left his cell phone at the insurance company and unfortunately when he went to get it back they were closed. He had to go work that night and he does work very long hours, and his father went to get the phone for him. Well, needless to say I had texted him a few times and I am sure the phone was going off like banchee's and was very annoying. His father opened the phone to shut the phone off, and my last messege was staring him in the face. Ohhh boy.


I received a text while i was working from my MM, tonight he let me know that his father had questioned him about who I was, and wanted to tell me thats why he has been quiet. What do I make of this ? Certainly nothing positive for him thats for sure. I can only guess that he was truthful with his father because that's his nature. I have yet to hear what was actually said. Am i nervous ? Ohhh you bet I am. Why ? because I dont know how his father or his mother will accept this. I know thru the years that they are very wondeful people, but judgmental ...I dont think.

I am sure they'd want some answers. Is he making decisions to tell all ? I have no idea. I am not going to sway him one way or the other thats for sure. Will I pull the covers over my head and cry ? you bet I will. Will I leave him be ? I sure will...for as long as I have to for him. Divorce is not a nice thing, and there is so much pain involved for everyone. I am not happy to see this happen. Will I wait for him ? You bet I will. Why ? because Ive had my share of bs in relationships and to start all over in a new one to just get hurt from someone who will never become to know me like he does is a waste of my time.


I'll keep his pillow warm, and I will keep him close to my heart as I have always done. Is it fair for me to grow lonely while I wait ? nope. But nothing about it is fair. Thats the initial bluntness of being the other woman. Good day to you, and good luck to you all.

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Sorry for the typo at the end. Was supposed to be "it will backfire on you". Not , I.
Please dont feel alone. Easier said then done I know. But it's nice to have a place to come just to jot down your feelings. It really helps. Just because we love a MM it don't make us bad people. As long as love is involved. But if its just for sex its just not right. When the love fell apart from my husband and I, I wished he would find someone to love, and vice versa. We went for 9 yrs out of love. It really makes for a not so happy life. You end up just going through the motions, and what is the fulfillment in that? I certainly had none. But he was finding other ways to fulfill his. I could probably write a book about it. Jun 21, 2010
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Being the other woman and living in secrecy is heartbreaking. Not all MM who have love outside the marriage are habitual cheaters. Most I would say are...But a few select are not.
If I hadn't known him for so long, and he hadn't been my rock through many trying times for me, I am certain I would not be in the place I am now with him.
I am not in the dating scene, never liked it even in my younger day. There is one upside, and that is the freedom of independence. Although, it gets lonely, but on the other hand, I can come and go as I please, no one to answer too. I can keep my money on a budget, and I can splurge when I want on what I want.
If I told him we cannot do this anymore, He would let me go, but still remain my friend. We've talked about it. He tells me he wouldn't blame me one bit if I moved on. It's not his way of sweet talking me either to keep hanging on the side line. I want to be there. All I would have to do is stop answering his calls, his texts, and whatever else I deemed necessary.
We make our own choices. If you have a gut feeling that something is just not right, and that your just being used ? There's way's to get answers. It's up to you to figure it out. Just dont ever be too willing for him to leave. I could backfire on you. Jun 21, 2010
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My story married man

by Elizabeth
(Clinton, AR)

I have been seeing my mm for a year and a half.He is married to 8 yrs, has no children we were all friends before it started. We were hot and heavy for the first year cost at night, several times a week.

We all live in the same city. Lots and means a lot of people know. It even knows. It is very akward when we graduated from the same location together. I fell hard for it, and then we end for 4 months ago.I still not over it and whined about for several months he called and we talked briefly before one month and then graduated from the same place this past weekend. He leaves the site and called me. He spent the night.

We spent most of the talk night, but as always, never get anything resolved. I know he loves me and I love it. I know that this is a waste of time and my affection if he will not make me first.I don't know if I ever will be able to move each connection because of the feelings I have for it.

It does not attempt to make excuses, but outside connection is probably a little different than most do. we'll go together. I have been to your House, I met his family and lover. Her brother was my house with mm and know what is happening.

Has ever seen.All my friends and know and almost expect to see us together.

I know he wants of a marriage, but wants to be the one that ends it.I'm confused.If you really wanted, would it also I just get it and maybe one day, I can move on without it.

Wish can say no more, but you do not have in me. Likely manner in which he and it feel ...code

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Thursday, October 21, 2010

What is there between them?

by Aminath
(Srilanka)

I'm 20 tears old high school girl. I met impressive man (26) of our College before 9 months.As we were both international students study abroad, we can come close finally came to a wonderful days we had together., but we do not have gone in sex, but he used to say, it will not be loyal to a woman who engage in sex, no, "he says. Just blind falls on it.

He introduced one of his friends (22), which is already a boy friend (21).Also, we've become good friends and it's traditional to my spot. then I found, it often goes out over nights with her friends. He always recommended to give up these habits.After two weeks she was separated from his friend of boy.I saw signs, then showing it was fraud.

It is also here in the same place with us for the month and two are extremely close. unable to get each step They returned to the country of origin.
Samedi died because he tries to maintain distance.
After all, he was told that they are not friends poveceToj knows that it is STD and it will be not listening. also I have seen some transcription for her illness, and they have gone doctor together.

We are still in a relationship, but my heart says he is zal?gvac. I cannot relax for even one second. What can I do now ...Code What would my tips?

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It is my ex was a lover, but it can have (or better yet, it gets rid of it too!)

by Michel
(Australia)

My ex back in my life after 10 years.I had initially divided with him because he had a problem in the use of drugs and alcohol. There are no problems of infidelity by both parties. I told him he needed to go in the center of rehabilitation, and to sort issues and invited him to "go back and see me when he had the sober 12 months".

I heard a few years later had a child with one Interstate. I was devastated. I actually loved and wanted the child have been mine. I put my mind and went on with my life.

In the coming years for my own reasons I will another link in the long term. I had several attempts, but nothing continues after a heart attack and death of the former ex partner which is deep, but I loved the left also with good reason, I grew a lonely. In addition I was dealing with the terrible situation of harassment in the workplace and in the moment of vulnerability, thought I wonder what ever happened to ...?

We found each other on the Internet. It is still an interstate and still with the mother of his child. I didn? so I thought nothing of it when I said that I would be happy to catch up for cuppa If he was in the city.I didn't mean to the affair!

It makes your business in the city after very soon! It asked before he can come spend my location. I said, no, you are with someone else and I now dnn? so I think it is appropriate (i.e. He was travelling alone).

We arranged to catch up for dinner and spend Motel instead. During the dinner I felt sorry for him. I also realized how much I had missed it. I ended up inviting him to spend my place in the end.Was half that night I said clearly I didn.? I want to have sex, but he pestered and pestered. In the end I gave, as part of me to ask. After sex, he told me in my position everything a woman might ever want to hear. It is in the unhappy relationship.He wanted to leave ya might he can return to me. It stays 3 days and Paul press with me was more than willing partner (as opposed to the original).

He went back between the United States. On his return he paid me far less attention than I felt that I deserved. I told him not to contact me again and I was not "other woman".We contact for 6 months and during this time, I got involved with someone else. new relations didn? so find out soon enough and I emailed him.

It is still sad and said he wanted to leave the mother of his child. I have argued. Is really I want to come down and visit again know it well may return interstate and treat me badly?I felt a feeling Sorry for him because of his still unresulved addiciton and I like the many years of recovery from the same issues that maybe I could help and decided to have a substantial adverse effect on costs. It remains a week returned immediately separated from the interstate and his partner, including moving, they have been living in the home. I was surprised and impressed. It seems to be doing things to be done to me at some time in the future.

Correct the link starts at this time.I felt that better not "other woman" he came for the third trip. With the exception of the return of interstate this time, although he is still a life of the mother of his child, he started me treatment horrible again.I couldn? t understand why. I doubt that maybe he uses drugs. I was worried my invitation to come and live with me in the light of this may not be wise (we had discussed flying his child visits regular access as only hours of travel between cities and soon the child shall be free to decide to live with a parent or of its own accord and may decide to live with us fulltime).

He continued to treat me the interstate.One day, I lost the plot and decided had had enough.I knew where the mother of the child (or ex-and I was led to believe) and I called.I didn?it Say expressly for "us", but instead it was said that it has the right to know he had a bed with other women throughout the city for a long period of time the call was cut short. where perhaps in its phone shocl it (they worked together).

It is true what I had told her he had admitted to me that had 4 issues in the context of their reciprocal relations and stands of "countless" overnight.I knew that he has a history of sexual abuse as a child and put their behaviour and substance abuse down to this. Thus, I had been, suggesting that he go to residential rehabilitation centre for a period of time, to deal with these issues before moving in with me.

Now?so I know if what you have done is right or wrong.I just know I had to obtain it from my life is it my treatment horrible.It also occurred to me that he was from chickening his affairs and planning then with the mother of the child, without tells me that this is what is planned. has my permanent closure and treat me anything as a partner for a person that permanently, I once loved so much all these years is just too much to bear.

I felt that if will be miserable then he would have Felt so. employed trading on how I felt about it in the past, Now I see. due to the loneliness and the vulnerability that allowed themselves to be too "plays" and I feel terrible for my part in allowing yourself to get sucked in by. I have never other woman before and never will be again.

I will contact me again, and if so is the result, I was wishing deeply hurt. I'm so should also be the mother of his child to. both We deserve better. at least now, if they agree it will hopefully have inkling of the type of person, it deals with.

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of the peace
(Australi)

I have recently broken off relations of 2 and a half years.It was passionate and intense.

My husband is resistant sick when we met and I was very vulnerable. I lost my husband about a year after I met this guy and he made himself very comfort me, I had a little support from famly.

He continued to maintain contacts me he says only wanted to help me and make me happy.
Has anyone heard of cheating man who said that?

I am sure he is light and easily see me as an objective!

He went to great lengths to achieve its objectives.He spent all his spare time in my company and starts at the beginning of my hobbies and interests.

He seems to have the instinct for what I needed.It shall keep in constant contact with phone calls, e-mail messages and texts was isolating me from the rest of the world.

After a holiday away from the party with him I hit reality in large way.Everything became clear as Crystal for me.

It was three weeks ago now and have stopped, see link. it supports bombarding me with emails and texts. I am standing firmly and determined to do this, you need to ....stay outside.

I am planning to start to find the correct dates, where the impact of this reality of wear. I am still smarting because I was conned so beautiful and quiet.

I'm not there yet, but also on the way.

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Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Married Man Syndrome

by TJohnson
(Kansas City, MO)

When I met him, we were Associates, and he admitted he was married. later he treated divorce. I do not participate with it, so I never gave it a second thought.

However when I broke up with my guy, he is prepared to hold my hand. One piece of advice, if you are not sure ... This is my tale. Never took me to his home. I never met friends. He never says his name ex-s; He met my family and introduced himself as my man ". He met with friends. No doubt there. I know that his children names, I know where he lives. He requested that information. How many wierd, right? I have no doubt he is in love with in me, buth e is not fulfilled. I feel in love with it. And finally, after asking obvious question, "where we will house?" He came with any excuse, which made me back off (too late, I had already fallen for it). Finally, when I said we could not move forward while the NOSY my ass I saw his house. This is within 1 month. We started to see each other as soon as the mother's day, we have been committed by the father of the day. Why? Why should never go to the home. He could not understand why I pushed it. My thing, I didn't want to get there and find some poor woman bound and gagged in the basement. I had to know exactly?Well when I pushed the issue, it must be clean.And he Texted me, "Yes, I am not married, but I do not like ya I'm in love with you, what can we do? WE??? #% Bullsh ladies ...Move.

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Monday, October 18, 2010

My dream becomes a nightmare to me

I am in a relationship with a married man. It's been going on (and off) for 20 years.

He is my high school sweetheart and what I thought was my soul mate. I've been married twice and had it in my mind (and heart) that I would never find the love I had with him or how I felt when I was with him.

I (we) have been caught by our spouses at least 10 times in the past 12 years. So we would cool it of awhile but always end up seeing each other again. This patten obvioulsely lead to the end of my marriage.

I back to my home town (also his) about a year and 1/2 ago and within 2 weeks starting seeing him again....he told his wife about us, and ended it with her....somewhat. He never left the house. After about 6 months I started seeing changes in his behavior and actions with me and he admitted that he was back with her. He claimed his children (15, 18 and 25) all told him that if he wasn't going to be with their mother then they would rather see him move out then see her live through the daily tourment. He choose to stay.

I have no idea how I came to the decision to stay in the relationship. I guess I felt that he loved me enough and wouldn't be able to live a double life. That was over a year ago.

I have ended the relationship over 30 times, only to take him back after a few days.

I live a daily life of when, for how long and will he ever be with just me.

I am on medication, in therapy and am hanging onto my job by a thread because of my realtionship with him. But I still feel we are soulmates, he is the love of my life and my best friend, regardless of the daily hurt he puts me through.

I struggle daily with the obvious, why don't I just end it. He has promised me the rest of his life if I can wait 3 more years until his youngest graduates. Pathetically enough I believe him, sometimes......

I am smart enough to realize that our relationship is anything but perfect, but our time together seems to heal the pain enough for me to continue it....I've said it all....all of you or nothing....get out of my life, you can't possibly love me like you claim if your doing this to me.....and just can't seem to end it with him....

I am looking for the strenght to get my life back....to care about anything but what he's doing....something. To make my family, friends and career important again....I am slowley dying inside, while he continues to promise me a life.

I have heard from several people that if I leave him, and make him miss me, miss what we have....I will find out the truth. I have to admit, with him staying there and lying daily I am afraid to find out the truth. Afraid of loosing him forever....

Why I put myself through this daily torment is beyong my understanding. I am an intellegent, attractive women.

I have to end the realtionship with the person who I love the most in this world and just don't know how to do it.

The best phrase I have read lately is: never make someone your priority when they only make you an option. My life in a nutshell.

Mentally and emtionally drained is how I would describe myself. I am looking for the strenght, courage and wisdom to end and know it is what's best for ME.....


I've also been in a relationship with a married man and have ended it about ten times. Every time I meant it, every time he managed to persuade me otherwise.

It has been nearly two years now and because we live 200 miles apart, we only see each other a few times a year. But he still expects me to speak to him every single day, and send dozens of texts per day, and to keep him abreast of where I am going, with whom.

In short, I am a presence in his life, a friend, a listener, an ego boost, that allows him to carry on his own unhappy marriage. I give him what he doesn't get from his wife, but which gives him the strength to stay at home to nurture their two sons.

He will never leave. He says he will, one day. But I know he won't.

I am gradually weaning myself off him but the fear of ending it and losing that faux romance is a terrifying one. So I know exactly how you feel.

You have invested so much in this that to end it now, with no return, is almost unthinkable.

I wonder whether we use our married men as a subconscious excuse to avoid getting involved with someone real? Perhaps our commitment phobia is just as bad as his? Do we really want someone there 24/7, to live with, and marry, and face real life with?

Just a thought. And one I have asked myself often.

Good luck, we're here if you want to chat more. Aug 29, 2010
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oh sweetheart ,that was hard to read without feeling very sad on the years you have wasted..you know the answer,20yrs is screaming LOUD AND CLEAR..

i got out after 2 yrs,and a 3rd of txting and sending me flowers..3 yrs is bad enough,poor you..this guy OBVIUOSELY is going no where.darling dont waste another 3 waiting for the youngest,,thats carazy thinking.honestly.i adored mine.he ticked every box,i was smitten,he treated me like a queen,,not with presents,just respect and love.i wanted him more then anything......till one day...my health was bad..lost weight,was crying all the time,isolateing myself from the world..AND FOR WOT,,for him to go home after haveing me.settle down with his family,untill he needed me again..like you im attractive,bad speller.

im strong and clever.but still found myself here..get rid,,dont wait to see if he comes running,,he has had 20 yrs.and more opportunitys than he deserves..i could have quite easily have let this go on,and he would have happily let me dO it..dont ruin the rest of your life..read my story on here..title IM FREE..THESE GUYS ARE PLAYERS,IT DOESNT MEAN THAT THEY DONT THINK THEY LOVE YOU.THEY ARE GETTING THE VERY BEST OF BOTH WORLDS..take your life back,be strong shut it down..sleeping and wakeing happy is priceless..

im still on my own,but ready to look for someone that wants to show me off and be proud to let people know we are a couple..do it.....when you look bk,you will cringe on the yrs he took..goodluck to you my friend.....xxxxxxxx Click here to add your own comments

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I can see a married man every now and then

by Feagin
(Pensacola FLA)

I meet this guy before this time limit of seven months, he was smart dwell time, I spent time talking to this guy never tells his wife did not even mention his name. As time passed I tell me by itself is cool, it does not talk about it. I feel that he did not love me. It is simply the sheet for him and he called me about every day. Never talk to me and it so that this tell me, but he just here sheets. I always felt when I started fooling with it was just something in common. I feel that something is not well at home, but since he was me see things in your home are searching and I have to tell him a stay at home wife I don't need you because you might feel you're not with me when we together, he told me in January, we needed for the higher level I will sex so that we did.But I will try all its fill and void for him, he must try with his wife, I don't feel that his wife's love does not make any way he wants it and me.I'm younger it is six years. this guy is all you ever wanted in a man, but this is something is missing, it is not my thing he need to straighting, between himself and the wife are eirther opened to me because I am about to close a workbook in this respect, I cannot stand on my feeling and not pressing where all you so anyone who read this please give their two cents for what happened in this connection.

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Having cheater as spouse is no laughing matter. There is nothing more damaging or degrading than being cheated on one only person in the world trust everything. And it happens right below your nose is much more harmful than you can ever imagine. Why do you stop it now! And why I'm here to help with three-away and give the collection a spouse Signs you must look for.

Collection of Signs spouse-Number One: he or she starts taking frequent showers, more than the previous, it is more satisfying their "other partner" and more, which you can indicate their "late night encounters" have been going on for quite some time.

Majors Signs spouse-Number Two: he or she will show the changes in behaviour may be the smart new boxers or fragment attractive bed he/she just purchased, or the new latte they began for drinks in the morning. These changes need to duly noted, in particular, if you know that has had the old Boxer for three years now, while nagging him this time for some new or if you see that, after two years of drinking the same cup of espresso in the morning, she suddenly decided to try "something new".

Majors Signs spouse-the number of engines: he or she does not have toys children in the car anymore?This one is very strong character, because if he or she is not a toy for children in the car, on one of two things is first that you don't want any reminder of their children while meeting other man/women, because this makes them feel exactly guilty and awkward.Second, you "majors" partner to know they are married.It is very possible, even likely, that he or she is generally other people too.








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Sunday, October 17, 2010

Top 3 majors Signs spouse


This is one of the most difficult things you will ever have to go through, it may come as a surprise to you, or it may come slowly at the end of the tail of a bad relationship. If you suspect that you are a victim of infidelity, but simply do not know, there are some common ways that you can say. Often cheater leaves the same bread crumbs as thousands of cheaters, that have gone before them. Always amazing to me that the characters are the same, but they exist, every hour. If you suspect that he married into the cheater, here are 3 of the top calling spouses symptoms and how you can pick up on them.

Top collection of spouse is truly a scene recently.Since the emergence of mobile phones and personal computers become one of the top calling spouses signs. If you notice that your spouse become overly protective of their mobile phone or they start staying up late and being sneaky on your computer, this may be one of the top signs of majors spouse.

Another sign is that cheater suddenly take interest in the way that they look.Now there is nothing wrong with trying to look better, but if you are doing things which are not wholly character type, such as changing the linen, which prefer, then this could be one of the classic signs of spouse majors.

Yet another mark majors spouse is you will treat differently and The first family; they may show you more affection to make up for any part of infidelity, but eventually will distance themselves from you and you may even begin to treat you harshly dissonant and their conscience becomes more difficult.

Many signs of spouse, but these majors 3 certainly are those that we have come top. knowing you and having plenty of evidence of infidelity you a much better position to confront them with it.








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I just got out of a relationship of two years with a married man. When I read the first few sentences of this article I was amazed at the excuses they were EXACTLY the ones he used on me.

I'm divorced because my husband cheated on me and I was angry at this other woman and just wanted her to leave me and my husband alone so we could work on our marriage; but it takes two to have an affair. My husband continued his affair and we divorced and I later found out he had not just one, but at least two and fathered a child from one of the affair's he had.

I moved on with my life and have dated off and on. I met a man two years ago who told me he and his wife "lived as roommates". He said it was for financial reasons because she does not work and he pays all the bills. He said she was basically to lazy to get a job and that he had been pushing her to get one. This man has four (4) children from three (3) different women (track record ???).

Anyway, we began talking and hanging out as friends and having lunches together. Soon we got involved in a relationship and when I would get suspicious about the truth behind the reltionship with his wife he would get very defensive. He always had me apologizing for being suspicious.

While we were dating he filed for divorce and she never contested it so it was a slam dunk! However, he made excuses not to move forward with the divorce which of course made me even more suspicious.

One year later we moved in together and he came home very excited telling me that his wife knew everything he had "come clean"! When I asked what he was talking about because as far as I knew she already knew he was in a relationship she just didn't know who I was. He explained that he told her who I was and that was what he meant by "coming clean". About 30 minutes after he gave me this information I got a phone call from his wife asking me what was going on between me and her husband. I spent about an hour on the phone with her and found out that he had been living a double life for an entire year. He had been sleeping with both of us and she had no idea that he was in fact on the lease and living with me in an apartment that we had gotten two months prior to her calling me. After I got off the phone with her I had gone back into the room where he was and asked if he wanted to tell me anything. He asked what she said and I demanded he tell me the truth, well I got it! He admitted to having slept with both of us and lying for the entire year. He also stated as it was near Thanksgiving when all of this came out that he was going to end it with her. He took another step in the divorce case to try and prove that he wanted to be with me. Again, he then let the case drag out and made more excuses.

He left for New York in December and was gone through the holidays and was coming back on New Years Eve day. I had made plans for us as his plane was to land in the morning and he insisted his wife drive him home because he had taken his youngest daughter with him to New York to visit his two oldest kids that live in New York. He said he did not want a confrontation at the airport in front of his daughter, I told him I would wait in the parking lot and he could call me when his wife was gone; he still insisted she drive him home. I waited all day just to find out he spent the day shopping with his wife and kid in San Diego all day then proceeded to go home with his wife have sex with her and then he came home to me with a hicky on his chest.

He begged me to take him back and kissed my a&& the rest of the night trying to get on my good side. I wanted to kick him out I was so angry! I let him stay but the anger was still there, we fought almost everyday after that. I ended up supporting him financially since he said he had to pay all of her bills, it was a mess. I finally kicked him out after reading a text message from his wife that was about him telling her he wanted to work on the marriage. I woke him out of a dead sleep and told him to GET OUT! He did but it didn't end there...

He moved back in with his wife and it lasted for about two weeks before he ended up moving in with a roommate. This time I went to see where he was living since he said he still wanted to be with me. We started dating again and about two weeks after he moved in with this roommate I got several text messages from his wife about how he had been sleeping with her even after he moved in with this roommate. He denied it and stated she was just angry about us being together and was trying to break us up. Another mess...

We went back and forth for to long! He kept me hanging on and when it got to the final stages of the divorce he began to pull away. His kids had come down from New York and he said they had to stay with his wife since he was working nights. He also decided to stay at her house and said there was not enough room at his place for him and his three kids. I told him I thought he was playing house and again he denied it stating it was just about space for the kids. He invited me to his house (the house with the roommate) two nights in a row while his kids were down so I could meet them. I spent the night one night and the second night despite his plea's for me to spend another night I went home. He had also invited me for an outing with him and his two oldest kids. All of this took place in July 2009.

At the end of July I had been laid off from my job and was devastated. I called him and told him and two days later he said he wanted to work on his marriage. However, it still was not over!!! In August 2009 we still were seeing each other and he would talk about being confused about what he wanted and scared because his oldest daughter was angry that he didn't try harder with her mom. He told me he didn't want his youngest daughter to grow up angry and felt he should focus back on his marriage. This did not stop him from inviting me to an outing in San Diego for a friends birthday. It was agreed that this would be our last weekend together, but I was so angry at the events that took place this particular weekend. He had given me the code to his cell phone to unlock it (first time ever) but I didn't read to much into it. We went out Friday night with friends of his and had a good time. At the end of the night he was pretty drunk and eventually passed out. I went through his cell phone and saw all of the evidence! Oh, and I also noticed he had a tan line from wearing his wedding ring, something he'd never had before. The pictures I found in his phone told me everything... When we were driving back home from San Diego the next day he was on the phone with his wife and stated "I love you (blew a kiss over the phone)" and hung up. I looked at him in total shock, he said he had to put up a front or she would know he was with me. When we got back to my place things happened and we fell asleep and I was woken up by the ringing of his phone. He answered it and it was his wife. He left the room and spoke quietly then came back into the bedroom and asked for a ride home. We were supposed to be going to a BBQ and when I asked about it he said his wife told him he had spent to much time already partying with his friends and it was time to come spend time with the family. I made him call a friend and get a ride back to his place, he had kissed me goodbye and told me would call me the next day. I was so angry and had initially told him I would not say anything to his wife, but I ended up sending her an e-mail and it turned into a war of e-mails that ended with him blocking me from his cell phone and sending me e-mails stating he was "in fear for his safety and the safety of his family and leave me alone". I was shocked by what the e-mails read and very angry at him. Nonetheless, we are now done and it was the biggest waste of two years that I will NEVER get back! Not to mention the lies he has spread about me to other's he works with.

Anyone who reads this would probably think why the heck didn't I leave when the truth first came out, well I keep asking myself the very same question... Next time a man tells me he is married I AM RUNNING THE OTHER DIRECTION!!!

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Saturday, October 16, 2010

How to quickly Discover, if your spouse is calling you-calling spouse finally showed Signs


Infidelity causes so much pain and heartache in marriage and you know this, because your heart is now broken in pieces. You have a sinking feeling that your spouse is being Unfaithful in your marriage and it is driving you crazy. Want to know the truth, so you can move either forget about your worries or appropriate action and put an end to your marriage.

You must learn how to quickly discover if your spouse is calling you and the only way you can do is by science majors signs spouse when you know what to look for, you can figure out what really makes the copy, and so you can learn the truth today.

To say, if your spouse is calling you, you need to learn signs of infidelity. When you know the characters, then you can figure out what is really going on and that Mr. majors spouse may be lost once and for all.

The biggest sign that your spouse is calling you, if they can be avoided if you can send your spouse text messages all day and never respond this is a bad sign. If your spouse comes home late, and when they get home, they do not give you any attention or affection, which is also a problem. When your spouse start avoiding you completely, they do so sub-consciously and do it to avoid confrontation that could potentially hinder their secret.

Another sign that your spouse is calling you, if they start treating you with lesser extent as a lover and more like a friend.When your spouse starts laughing more often and create this relationship jovial, which is intimate or romantic, is they are the connection or attraction for someone else and they do not feel you anymore.Disconnected feeling with you, and now they are projecting that they look for quality. as they are glaring this time signs that something is not right.

Look for these signs of majors and spouse will quickly discover what's really in your marriage.Living with and loving someone who can lie and deceive you can easily, this is something no one deserves. make sure that you use these tips to detect inconsistencies and to protect yourself.








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Collection of Signs spouse-7 Tell Tale Signs to Look Out for!


Do you feel that your husband "sixth is calling you? If so, this time you can look for majors signs spouse who can give it away, if really is infidel.

In this article we 7 signs warning device that you want to search. However, do not jump to the conclusion that he is definitely in calling, if you can see several or more characters. Is just an indication that something may have gone wrong and you should take further action, but must look for more concrete evidence before confronting it.Even if his face, his behaviour majors, sure you can do without causing any harm to yourself Here are signs 7..

1. Secretive Telephone conversation
This is probably the most obvious sign that something is not right with your spouse can be noted that recently it is going out of room to receive connection whenever it rings? does it hang up each time walk into the room?If so, what can be the right time and is you can look for more characters.

2. additional consideration to its appearance
Is your husband always very well-dressed when he goes to work or is it suddenly paying more attention to his appearance? if you notice that recently returned later than usual at home and often Lady Strange smell of perfume on it, be careful.

3. More arguments last
Sometimes during both seem to get multiple arguments may be a sign that there is some form of calling you.This is particularly so if quarrels typically run by the latter and each Sprzeczka it would walk from home may be just the excuse to leave the House to meet with his mistress.

4. Caught lying
Among the many spouse majors signs that you need to look for catching the partner lying.If him telling lie on a case very small fishing and you don't see the need to lie in the first instance, it may be trying to cover up something more serious.

5. more time spent online
Your spouse would having Affair, if you can catch him spending more time online today, especially if he tries to minimize the screen or shut down the computer when you walk into the room.He might be having a cyber Affair and theirs, you can start to find out more.

6. Strange behavior from friends
Sometimes friends start strange behavior around you may be aware of something that does not and are feeling awkward while you're there They could have seen your. spouse calling you but afraid of saying.

7. Falsely that the Licensee Of collection
This is one of the most painful symptoms majors you spouse because it is that you infidelity. If you know that there is no reason for him to make such a false accusation and not overly possessive form sort person, chances are, it is feeling guilty Affair.

These are 7 tale majors spouse signs that may indicate that the infidelity in the relationship, but you cannot jump to the conclusion that by checking one of the symptoms, however, it serves. as an indication that you should start looking for more concrete evidence to determine if your spouse is really calling you.








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Friday, October 15, 2010

Calling spouse Signs-Easiest Ways to Tell If Your spouse is Cheating on you


You can have this haunting feeling that your spouse is being Unfaithful and want to get to the bottom of it. Want to learn the truth and quickly, so you can learn what's really in the relationship. Want to know what happens and you want to know today. You must learn to find majors signs spouse.

Today we have so many technologies that we use on the basis of daily, so why not that this technology work in your favor?Using technology and software to lost majors spouse. Although some software may be fair cost money to lease your truth about what happens with the copy.

Easiest software to use is one that registers a keyboard strokes on your computer.If you and your spouse share desktop, then it works in your favor you can go to your spouse. on your computer, and although you can delete browsing history and remove passwords, by recording keyboard strokes, you can easily distinguish their passwords to their e-mail accounts or social network pages. This will allow you as much information about what happens in your marriage so you can find out what happens when you're not around.

If you don't want to spend a bunch of money, then you should look at the collection of spouses signs.Most of these symptoms are not clear, but they are there. Body Language speaks volumes and of course, actions, louder than words. "If you ask your spouse about where they were and they clearly detailed about Why they were delayed, or where they are and why they exist, rather than simply be responsible for answering with ease, then you can tell they lying.Or if the person is lying about something they rather under and is their lie more details go to more legit, or so they assume. However, when a person goes into too much detail, lie loses its believability and is a sign that your spouse is calling.

Other majors a spouse is, if your spouse comes late and they start showering you with love and affection.Although it may assume that they are doing this because they love you, chances are they simply which with another person, and are feeling guilty about it so if they start acting romantic direction will be again, then it makes it interferes in their minds.

Using these methods to determine if your spouse is calling or not definitely helps you today also some methods are for lost majors spouse, body language signs are not sufficient for you.








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21 years younger than me

from Gorgeous green eyes
(Atlanta, GA)

Plus is a COP (Detective) and Baptist youth Minister ... Wow ... you know, you just don't wake up one morning and say, Hey, I go to sleep a married man today ... and believe me, I look 20 years younger than my age and I am dating men from 30 to 60! There is never a shortage of men for me.

How I met this guy was when I had to submit a police report Felony (of which this COP was able to get the FELONY CONVICTION of that person), which has been stolen from a guy I met on line (!), and is even during ... I knew he was married and it was about the petrol fire when we met.... (I AM 56 and He is 35) he takes my breath away 6 ' 5 ', beautiful and sharp dresser ... and what gentleman:) and all of a sudden my case became a top priority and within 2 weeks of our spa together ... at that time, he had to reveal to me that he was also a Baptist preacher.

Opened later ... (!) Attraction between us is unlike anything that has been felt in over 25 years.(I have been married 4 times to 3 men) .... (widowed once) the last time I saw him about a month ago (we broke it off 4th May) and for dinner and he turns to me and says "I love my wife and I love my family ' which I said," you can get mad at me for saying this, but you can love your wife but you're NOT In LOVE with it, because if you did you would not be here with me And happily married man do not step on his wife. "

He just looked at me ... and then when we walked to my car. .. he is on duty and is coming in later that night, when he turns off change @ 11: 00 ...He had a huge erection in broad daylight (completely NOTICEABLE) (and he has his gun on a hip) parking (this was around 7: 00), except if you don't hear from me will be your space around 11: 00, I will never be able to get my mind this Visual of him looking at me with a permanent erection! especially since he had announced that my earlier. I never intended to participate with this man ... he makes excuses for my Office (working for a company) and in-depth police (Office), is one block away from my Office.

And even the observer to come in my room was initially to take fingerprints of my jewelry cases and chests (I had a jewellery and furs stolen from me) and I knew he was very attracted to me and asked me at one point can be discreetly? " DUH.Really liked this guy and no, I never fell in love with him ... Although it may have ... And I knew that in another life, we would be perfect together ... we talked alot and chemistry is fantastic and I speak not only for sexual chemistry.

I met him in January 2010 and the last contact was 2 weeks ago.I tried to break it with him at the beginning of March, but it does not last.He says he works very guilty (and I was too) and I need to do so, it must be done for his two children, 5 and 8 yrs of age) and love with his wife and not to do this already ... of course I think that could be together, and we know that and we discussed it.BUT the fact that it is so much younger than me is the main factor here is married or not, we both agree that we are soulmates and sometimes people in your life to help through calls for or to teach you some form of lesson.He is a cute little soul, and for any reason ... cheated, desire, not enough attention at home, etc. ...

He was very kind to me and I will never EVER forget it.Sometimes you need to tell your heart No., I thought of his wife and two children and had to withdraw from this ... but it's not every day that someone makes you feel 30 years younger.And I knew that I wanted it right now while it would have come some point that I could start needs negotova is a determining factor for me ... I will probably have missed this guy, even though it has never I met him he was this special to me, and it will stay special me forever.

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Thursday, October 14, 2010

OMG I'm in idiot

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See my wife married former

from the first woman
(Savannah)

I've been seeing my first husband, married to 1 1/2 years. We were sweethearts highschool and married very young. We only have been married for 18 months and divorced stupidly. We went Two unhappy marriages. Skip to 33 years later. We are responsible.Realize, we have always been in love. we see each other for a week (we live 150 miles distance) and travel together for 4-6 weeks. He had three children, 16, 22 and 25.

He said that children are not sufficiently robust to take care of themselves and they are really quite immature. He was a surgeon. Lately we have been stepping up preparations to be together. Planning, etc. But last Sunday, he was an early and very badly broken wrist.Saturday night, we were in love and drawing up of plans for our trip coming up next month. Sunday, he was wounded family starts its "good" and now I get the texts are information and cool. There is no "hires" not "love", and so on, I know that he has decided to stop.

He is afraid of the financial consequences of not being able to perform surgery for several months. And they live in the very beginning of its means. Today is Friday. Last Tuesday morning, I heard was, as he told me his upcoming operation later that day.Also that the family is now its "assessment" and that "basic" things have changed. We still have our original wedding bands and placing them when we're together. I have been recorded (by him) in medical management courses for our upcoming trip. Our plans were serious.

Now one night, she disappeared.I know that even if it comes back, he will do so again.At this point because not even know Tues, if he lives in his surgery.This hurts so much, I am able to function.I went to see the end today, Monday, I will talk to my doctor, I feel stupid but mostly alone. so much I want to be a strong before he tries to return.One night, it is difficult to swallow.

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Wednesday, October 13, 2010

Collection of Signs spouse-2 collection of Signs that can shock you!


Day's lipstick marks on his collar, wife knew her husband was dating the woman is another. It was not a hair Dresser, when wanted to surprise her husband, he discovered a few days later that she was seeing another man. Oh yes, these are situations out of the 2 popular Hollywood films. Life on the other hand do not show presentation and majors signs are not so obvious spouse. Besides, people learn from movies and also pick up how to cover their tracks. So if your spouse is calling you, chances are, you might even come know till things are quite out of your control.

Social Networking sites to bite your marriage

As harmless as connecting with old friends can be social networking sites great threat for any existing relationships. Collection of signs that have the capacity to shock here Start.Partner is exchanging several emails with their 10th standard science project partner, you do not infringe, right?Wrong. This can be very beginning their interest in Exploring options outside marriage and who better than the old sweetheart? Is in your interest to know just who your spouse is chatting or exchange of e-mail messages.

Too many numbers wrong

The collection of symptoms, credit for second place goes to how many calls partner receives in day misplaced.Your partner gets too many calls misplaced? or whenever you can answer their phone, the person on the other side asks for a different person? Notice partner speaking on the phone and violently cancel the call and walk into the room.You can ask and perfectly simple explanation is number wrong. Ever wondered, why would say so long to defective caller?

These two seemingly innocent could mean your spouse is calling & may need more closely observe your spouse.








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Collection of Signs spouse-as to Tell If Your spouse is Being Unfaithful


If you feel that your spouse is calling you, you are ready to know the truth. Want to know what is happening in your marriage and deserve to know the truth. If your spouse is not going to mobilise up courage you can say, then you must find out what happens behind your back on your own.

You must learn majors signs spouse, so you can really figure out what is happening in your marriage; it's time you got down to the bottom of this and that you learned where is your spouse and what they do, they are not coming home in good time.

Big majors a spouse, to look for is, if your spouse is forming an excuse to avoid Intimacy with you and if they are also creating wymówek to why they are always so busy.If your spouse cannot give longer affection and if they are not spending time with you, then there is a reason why they are If you are not giving affection and love, is because they are getting it elsewhere.As soon as they start treating you more like a friend than lover, then there is a problem.

And if your spouse is spending more time with his or her "friends" with all of the sudden guaranteed, it is a lie and that they are indeed spending this time with someone that they are intimate with all guidelines are slight and think, works perfectly, but you know better than that.

Other spouse character to search for majors, so you can check if your spouse is having an Affair is, if they are with you and short.You know your spouse had bad day and don't really want to talk with you, but if that happens more frequently, then you must look for problem. these guidelines slight because they really can give you all the information needed to catch them once and for all.

Don't let your spouse, get away with calling for another time.You can and will detect the Affair, which are accompanied by a copy and you will put an end to it is time had the matter in their own hands and your spouse busted in calling for granted.








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Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Collection of Signs spouse-how to Know If Your spouse is Cheating on you


There are some telltale signs of a spouse and subtle majors. Although they can be difficult to know if your spouse is in fact calling or not, definitely not impossible.

Some of these tips, you can learn the truth about your spouse.

Taking shower after coming home

One character to your spouse calling user is taking shower after coming home are regular or seasonal your spouse, then he obviously does not have any problem with this.However, if your spouse begins suddenly, thus, have reasons enough to be suspicious.

Become secretive about phone calls

Your spouse may become secretive about phone calls and e-mails, if they are calling you. for example, when your spouse receives some dial-up can go with spaces or can one phone to call later.

At the same time or over-interest with family

When your spouse is calling you, or he is suddenly disinterested family or be over-interested. Former happens when your spouse is trying to get away from family and always with his lover.When they become over-interested, they are simply feeling guilty and try to make it.

Perfume Smell different

Perfume Smell on clothes your spouse that you or your spouse has ever used other majors a spouse.

Hard evidence

You can also accidentally come from something which may lay beyond all doubt that your husband wife is calling you. for example, this can be a piece of intimate underwear, you might not have gifted, your spouse never worn on the front.

Can also be found in the hotel bill purse or Pocket. any evidence that may come to strand (s), (which obviously does not belong to you) to dress your spouse.








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Collection of Signs-spouse implementation When There is no evidence


Many relationship experts, as well as the number of investigators have talked about infidelity certain majors signs a spouse to be known as the tell-tale signs. They seem so obvious figure no one would be allowed by them. But as recent events have shown they tell tale signs still calling spouses work rather well.

Not all of these tell tale signs of majors, are evidence of the spouses. This case is, decide to change their appearance. Now for whatever reason, they are from dressing sharper than ever.Could mean finally are listening to you when you said sometime back needed repair wardrobe. because your suggestions or someone else is this change?

And then is that the user can be suspected there really don't tell tale signs of spouse majors.Could not detect any thing with ordinary. on several occasions, perhaps you have been doubtful with some excuse they gave you, but he checked out down the line, if your spouse is having extramarital Affair do permanent job keeping it hidden.

Still, if your instincts are telling you that something is wrong, then there are several things you can try.

1. Subtle questioning

During the conversation with other significant see If you can pick up on any discrepancies.If you can keep it to yourself now.You are trying to build a case and making accusations at first inconsistency in their story does not intend to make, also remember that your spouse may have their radar to detect any soon that you know what going on so you should carefully in your questioning.

2. Watch Time

Because they may not in two places at once, majors spouse will have to do some fancy footwork smooth to meet with someone else. See for example, if they are coming home later than normal in certain days or they say they are hanging with friends, but you have some way to contact them.

3. Look Again

While there may be no tell tale signs of spouse majors at first glance occasionally take a step back and check out the daily routine can shed some light on what's going on in their world Do it from time to time and see if detecting any thing different.








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Monday, October 11, 2010

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10 Signs calling spouse-Signs That Your spouse is Cheating


This could have a "gut" feeling that your spouse is calling. This feeling of "guts" may be right. However, you may not know the symptoms cheater. So what I'm going to call you can share the top 10 majors are signs of a spouse.

Signs of a spouse are fine:

1. your spouse works late more often without increasing reported in their pauses. This may be a clear indication that your spouse is calling.

2. your spouse has renewed interest in their appearance.

3. another mark majors spouse is if they hide their credit card statements.What is hiding are fees paid when having Affair.

4. If your text message their spouse "friends" suspicious or seems to be always talk on the phone in private, and then your spouse, you may be calling you.

5. your spouse take showers at weird times throughout the day.

6. another mark majors spouse is unusual activity on the Internet, if you notice that your spouse has different e-mail accounts or hiding myspace or earthworks. pl accounts from you, and then probably you are calling.

7. If your spouse has a sudden interest in hobbies or music, could be calling you.This is a clear indication that your spouse is calling, but remember it.If you see this, look for other signs to make sure.

8. your spouse, you may be calling when they always seem to hang up the phone whenever you walk into your spouse. being sneaky.

9. If you notice that your spouse is constantly "Alimentarius" calls, and then may be calling.

10. the last character of the spouse who cheats is, if you do and you answer spedzaj cell phone your spouse, the caller hangs up, and then something is up to your spouse. is probably having Affair for you.

These are the top ten signs majors spouse. If you notice your spouse to perform either of these characters, you need to do something about it. Deserve truth not accuse your spouse calling, but only that. this way will be worse things.

Instead, you need to find concrete proof that your spouse before calling.








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My husband 7 majors spouse Signs-listen to the Bells Going off in Your Head


When my husband had an Affair bells walk in my head-ding, ding, ding! If you start hearing the warning bells, the chances of your spouse is also having, or is entitled to the Affair. If you do not want to be a victim, Listen carefully these majors signs spouse.

Calling spouse character # 1: Choice of fighting stupid

Normally my husband and I didn't fight very much. None of us likes a confrontation, so we both avoided arguing.But then he began to walk me goad, usually over something stupid like forgetting to pay BILLS on a specified date, not picking up dry cleaning or not buying the right brands. shavingSo, as I said, they are silly, but it would get all worked up and storm from home and would disappear for hours. He never did this before and it seems strange that it then. Ding, ding, ding!

Calling spouse # 2: is excessively contrite

After one of his tirades when it would come back home, it would be overly Apologetic. it would beg and plead for my forgiveness. It would me gifts, which was something never done so before, except for ordinary gift giving occasions. But invariably, in a day or two, start would be another fight and the process would start over again. Ding, ding, ding!

Calling spouse # 3: Sex changes life

While none of us were virgins when we got married and had several lovers before we met, our lives are fairly routine sex. There were no swinging from kind pendant stunts. Neither of us was especially adventure with sex, but suddenly he wanted to try all these new posts and both sexes are more often or was too tired for sex. Never too tired for sex. When he kissed me, felt that the different. Ding, ding, ding!

Majors spouse # 4: Change the appearance of

Since we got here married my husband never bought a piece of clothing for themselves. I have purchased everything he ever was.But even if it would buy him a nice fire brigade, that I think would, he will always wear your favorite jeans worn and faded t-shirts, if it was working.Suddenly went shopping (allegedly by itself) and would bring home these designer jeans and shirts and began to criticize And purchased for him saying were not sufficiently stylish.Stylish enough?Before this I was thinking that the Levi's brand designer were. Ding, ding, ding!

Calling spouse # 5: took over the household accounts

One day, out of the blue, my husband decided to take over the household accounts Offered do. as if traded me a great favor. But mathematics was never his overalls strengthened and he hated during so this was very Unusual offer.Then one day, And reel mail and realized he had a new credit card in its name only.When I checked, it was unusual further withdrawals from our bank account. Ding, ding, ding!

Majors spouse # 6: Strange overtones

I have quite a good sense of smell and I note that although my husband began to wear Köln (something seldom made in the past, except on special occasions), he smelled different when it would come home it was like a combination of Its overtones. spicy House combined with floral fragrance. Ding, ding, ding!

Calling spouse # 7: laundry Stains

No, I can't find the lipstick on his collar Rather his underwear. showed signs of secretions, which does not seem consistent with our sex life, or more specifically, our sex life is missing. Ding, ding, ding!

Of course And in the face of my husband and after showing all the signs of spouse it majors, finally, albeit reluctantly, admitted to the Affair.

Was not an easy time in our lives, but we worked through it and now are well on our way together with and re-marriage and commitment to each other.








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Sunday, October 10, 2010

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It all started out as a holiday romance, he was honest about his wife and he said he would never abandon her at this point in their lives...he says he only married her due to pregnancy...and he also says her loves me. The sife was unfaithful to him before we met. It has now become a full-on soulmate love. I can't imagine my life without him, he can't imagine his without me. It's impractical and ridiculous, I know, but I can't seem to give him up, even though I obviously should. It's just a horrible situation.

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Hi, i came across your post and i thought i should write.... i also knew that my "partner" was involved as well no lies or anything. He had a girlfriend for several years, lived together and everything, however he got married by the courts in Nov.09 he did not tell me this.. i know he kept saying that he needed to talk to me but never did. I fell ill and many things happened in between, still i think no excuse, i found out on my own but when confronted he said that he wanted to marry her and he is sorry but he didnt know what to say and that he just waited to tell me because he didnt want to lose me, so i told him that he just wanted me there and he didnt care because thats a poor excuse. He adamantly says that its not like that, he shares everything with me from what happens in his family to his financial concerns, etc. I even have all his passwords to all bank accounts, trust is there, but this was just something i cant swallow that he did. To me, he married because he was pushed in a way even though there were no guns pointed to his head and number two that he has financial ties already with her... why would he marry her and keep me i dont know.. same reasons why yours doesnt let go either... i am firm believer that some men dont string along their mistresses or whatever you want to call it, some very few though actually do love or care very much about the other woman. We both got caught up in something that we thought we could let go of... and now that we have the perfect reason to leave neither of us do... its hard. Most dont understand. So i understand you... you know in the back of your head that this wont work but in your heart you want it too. I think that we will be ready to leave or stay in time.... we will be ready either soon or later. Its ok to wait it out and questions it, i think, because sometimes you're just not ready yet. Mar 28, 2010
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Hi, i came across your post and i thought i should write.... i also knew that my "partner" was involved as well no lies or anything. He had a girlfriend for several years, lived together and everything, however he got married by the courts in Nov.09 he did not tell me this.. i know he kept saying that he needed to talk to me but never did. I fell ill and many things happened in between, still i think no excuse, i found out on my own but when confronted he said that he wanted to marry her and he is sorry but he didnt know what to say and that he just waited to tell me because he didnt want to lose me, so i told him that he just wanted me there and he didnt care because thats a poor excuse. He adamantly says that its not like that, he shares everything with me from what happens in his family to his financial concerns, etc. I even have all his passwords to all bank accounts, trust is there, but this was just something i cant swallow that he did. To me, he married because he was pushed in a way even though there were no guns pointed to his head and number two that he has financial ties already with her... why would he marry her and keep me i dont know.. same reasons why yours doesnt let go either... i am firm believer that some men dont string along their mistresses or whatever you want to call it, some very few though actually do love or care very much about the other woman. We both got caught up in something that we thought we could let go of... and now that we have the perfect reason to leave neither of us do... its hard. Most dont understand. So i understand you... you know in the back of your head that this wont work but in your heart you want it too. I think that we will be ready to leave or stay in time.... we will be ready either soon or later. Its ok to wait it out and questions it, i think, because sometimes you're just not ready yet. Click here to add your own comments

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